Some Insight

Psychologist's report on Nikki Giavasis' daughter The link is from Court TV.

I haven't really got into this part of the story, because I think Nikki has issues of her own, but in the interests of telling the whole story, here it is.

The thing is, I can see him doing the things of which his daughter accuses him. I have personal experience with bullies who will say and/or do very hurtful things, and then cover it up by saying they were "just joking." I have news for them: it's not a joke unless the person on the receiving end of the "joke" finds it funny.

If the accusation in this report are true, this man has no business around children.

The question comes up over and over again: why do women become enmeshed in relationships with players like Bobby Cutts? The simple answer is that these guys LIE. They lie through their teeth and say ANYTHING they think the woman wants to hear. So then, the question becomes twofold: why do men think lying to women is acceptable, and why do women believe the lies?

Men who objectify women feel justified in lying in order to get what they want. What they want is not just sex, it's total control over the woman or women. Women are interchangeable to them. The old expression, "all cats are grey in the dark" was coined by such a man. Bobby Cutts had a "stable" of women. There was Jessie, there was Myisha, there was the married woman whose name has not been released. There may be more. Kelly is divorcing him, Nikki went clear to the west coast to get out of his sphere of influence.

The Bobby Cuttses of this world are attracted to women who exude a sort of vulnerability. Women who don't feel complete without men in their lives. Most of us are raised to believe that, in order to have a life, we must be part of a couple. I can't think of a single fairy tale in which the princess rescues herself. Sleeping Beauty needs the kiss of a prince to wake her. Cinderella waits to be found by her prince. Rapunzel...Belle...Snow White...not a one of them is at all pro-active.

I have a bit of advice for women. If you are not currently in a relationship, don't sweat it. Concentrate on having a life OF YOUR OWN. By yourself. Do the things you want to do. Look ahead, and plan for yourself a life well on into your later years. Tweak your plan until you like it, and then get off your duff and make it happen.

Guys like Bobby Cutts will give you a wide berth. What you will be exuding is confidence and contentment. No place there for the lies.

You will attract a much better class of men.

Another word of advice: in these days of internet investigation, it's not all that difficult to find out about a potential date. Google the name of the guy who is giving you the rush. Search MySpace, and dating sites. If you find out a username, google that, too. Chances are, he uses the same or similar nics all over the net. Above all, don't believe everything he tells you. If he sounds too good to be true, he probably is!

The linked document shows this man to be a total scumbag.